Happiness is a sense of well-being, joy, or contentment. When people are successful, safe or lucky they feel happy. In philosophy, happiness is translated from the Greek concept of eudaimonia, and refers to the good life, or flourishing, as opposed to an emotion.
Then tell me how you will be happy while you are holding a grudge on someone.
Life goes a lot smoother once you let go of grudges and forgive even those who never said they were sorry. Grudges let negative events from your past ruin today’s happiness. Hate and anger are emotional parasites that destroy your joy in life.
The negative emotions that come with holding on to a grudge create a stress response in your body, and holding on to stress can have devastating consequences (both physically and mentally). When you forgive someone, it doesn’t condone their actions; it simply frees you from being their eternal victim.
After Forgiveness you might find it difficult to forget the offence most time, especially when it drop a smear on you. Yes that’s what makes you human, and is very difficult to handle but you can still do it yourself
By Re-informing yourself that no creature is perfect and looking at it as necessary lesson for an ideal growth.
A sound minded person supposed to see Forgiveness as an intentional and voluntary process by which s/he chooses to change his/her feelings and attitude regarding an offense and let go off those negative emotions. Don’t allow anyone control your happiness by waiting till the offender come and drop an Apology. Place yourself at the helm and steer the course of your life just by becoming aware of not only the damage you can create, but also the magic you can create, in any given moment.
Be the master of your own ship, forgive and let’s go but never fail to take the lesson from the offence and make a pivotal decision based on future outcome.
Look into all your past unworthy business associates, failed friends and relatives.
And clean up those emotional parasites and embrace a joyful life full of happiness
It all depends on how you handle negative situations
Acho Cares 